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“He told me he wasn’t attracted to me anymore…”

“He told me he wasn’t attracted to me anymore…”

By | March 15, 2017 at 7:23 am | No comments

Dear Jenny, I have been with the same man for almost 7 years. We are so happy together! We have been through so much and our relationship only gets stronger. At the same time, I have been going through a very difficult period in my own private life.  Things are happening...

Posted in: Ask Jenny, Columns, Week 03/16 - 03/22 2017

“Am I ever going to find the right one?”

“Am I ever going to find the right one?”

By | March 1, 2017 at 1:06 am | No comments

Dear Jenny, I know that most people write in and ask you questions about relationships. But I have to share with you that I am so sick and tired of relationships! I am a great girl and I have a lot to offer someone. And I think I’m a very loving person, if I do say so myself....

Posted in: Ask Jenny, Columns, Week 03/02 - 03/08 2017

“I was hoping that the relationship would return back to normal..”

“I was hoping that the relationship would return back to normal..”

By | February 15, 2017 at 1:14 am | No comments

Dear Jenny, I have been together with my girlfriend for almost a year and a half, but recently, things have not been right.  Let me back up a little bit, my girlfriend spent the night with another guy four months ago. It was a very painful time, but we worked through it...

Posted in: Ask Jenny, Columns, Week 02/16 - 02/22 2017

“I need to make sure I am free of clutter.”

“I need to make sure I am free of clutter.”

By | February 1, 2017 at 1:05 am | No comments

Dear Jenny, I am recently divorced and am moving out on my own.  It is the first time I have lived alone since college.  I plan on getting rid of lots of old furniture and some old pieces of art that hold bad memories for me.  People keep mentioning that I need...

Posted in: Ask Jenny, Columns, Week 02/02 - 02/08 2017

“Can you find anyone worth while over the Internet?”

“Can you find anyone worth while over the Internet?”

By | January 18, 2017 at 11:20 am | No comments

By Jenny Wallis Dear Jenny, I have been dating, well, it seems like forever! I have been actively dating for over seven years. I just cannot seem to find a relationship that lasts more than six months.  Every time a relationship ends it always seems that it ends for the...

Posted in: Ask Jenny, Columns, Week 01/19 - 01/25 2017

“Should I just drop it or should I have questioned him?”

“Should I just drop it or should I have questioned him?”

By | January 4, 2017 at 8:10 am | No comments

By Jenny Wallis Dear Jenny, I have been in a committed relationship with someone for almost 8 months.  One night last week he called me and told me that he wanted to meet me for dinner, but he was planning on going to a dinner meeting.  Now this meeting was with a...

Posted in: Ask Jenny, Columns, Week 01/05 - 01/11 2017

“I feel like I’m going to be alone forever…”

“I feel like I’m going to be alone forever…”

By | December 14, 2016 at 7:35 am | No comments

Dear Jenny, I have struggled for many years not allowing myself to get close to anyone. When I do let someone into my life it always ends up being the wrong kind of man. Mostly, the emotionally unavailable types. I feel like I’m going to be alone forever unless I can learn to...

Posted in: Ask Jenny, Columns, Week 12/15 - 12/21 2016

“Have You Ever Heard Of Such A Thing?”

“Have You Ever Heard Of Such A Thing?”

By | November 30, 2016 at 3:30 am | No comments

By Jenny Wallis Dear Jenny, I’m wondering if the relationship I am in is normal, and some of the different emotions that I am feeling, are they normal as well? Put bluntly, I have been dating the same guy for over seven months, our relationship seems beautiful to everybody...

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“Is there a right way and a wrong way to decorate?”

“Is there a right way and a wrong way to decorate?”

By | November 16, 2016 at 8:10 am | No comments

By Jenny Wallis Dear Jenny, I am going to be moving in a month, I am very excited for my new home.  I really want to start being conscious of what I have and where the proper place is to set things.  But I don’t know the first thing about Feng Shui.  For...

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“They tell me they understand…”

“They tell me they understand…”

By | November 2, 2016 at 10:45 am | No comments

Dear Jenny, I haven’t read this in your column before and I can’t help but ask!  I am a single man, I love dating, meeting new people, getting to know them and well, just having fun!  The problem I seem to always run into is that I get involved with women who want...

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“When is it too soon to have the talk?”

“When is it too soon to have the talk?”

By | September 28, 2016 at 9:06 am | No comments

By Jenny Wallis Dear Jenny, I have been actively dating someone for seven weeks. We haven’t talked about monogamy or have had sex yet. I am interested in seeing where it goes, yet he hasn't broached the subject of being exclusive. Is it appropriate timing to bring it up or...

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“Is it possible to create chi?”

“Is it possible to create chi?”

By | September 15, 2016 at 2:38 pm | No comments

By Jenny Wallis Dear Jenny, How come whenever something happens that’s really, really dramatic people say, “wow, sounds like there is too much chi flowing.” Or whenever something bad happens people say, “I will send chi your way.” Is it possible to create chi? Is it...

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“…But here I am again questioning it.”

“…But here I am again questioning it.”

By | September 1, 2016 at 1:08 pm | No comments

Dear Jenny, I am so addicted to my ex. He's literally a drug. It's like an addict that only needs one more hit to be hooked again. I can't stay away from him. Every fiber of my being knows he will never fully commit yet my need for him in my life is stronger than my will to...

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Colors Of Feng Shui

Colors Of Feng Shui

By | August 18, 2016 at 4:08 pm | No comments

Dear Jenny, I hear people talk about the decorations they put in their home and how they should arrange the interior to achieve good Feng Shui. But is it important to make sure that it is a certain color? What colors should and should not be avoided when it comes to Feng...

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“Do I give him a chance or move on?”

“Do I give him a chance or move on?”

By | August 3, 2016 at 8:41 pm | No comments

Dear Jenny, I recently broke up with my boyfriend who has a heavy drinking problem. He was very loving and attentive, but his drinking interfered with our relationship in negative ways. For example, because he was highly intoxicated he broke my ankle, yet he still won't admit...

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Harmonize Your Workspace

Harmonize Your Workspace

By | July 21, 2016 at 9:06 pm | No comments

By Jenny Wallis Dear Jenny, Is it important to have your office Feng Shui’d. I know that you want your home and personal space balanced, but if you work at an office and are there only from 9-5 everyday, should you even bother to fix it up? It’s not technically your...

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“How long is too long to make the move?”

“How long is too long to make the move?”

By | July 7, 2016 at 1:41 pm | No comments

By Jenny Wallis Dear Jenny, I’ve been with my boyfriend for five years. After the first year together we graduated college and he got a great job. We’ve been long distance ever since! I want to be supportive and I am really proud of him, but I am not sure how much longer I...

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“What’s wrong with wanting to be with someone you love all the time?”

“What’s wrong with wanting to be with someone you love all the time?”

By | June 23, 2016 at 10:33 pm | No comments

Dear Jenny, I have an amazing boyfriend!  We get along so well and like to do most of the same things.  The only problem is that sometimes, actually most of the time, he tells me that I am crowding him.  He has told me that I call him too much, can you imagine?  And he has...

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“That is definitely not clutter, is it?”

“That is definitely not clutter, is it?”

By | June 12, 2016 at 12:06 am | No comments

Dear Jenny, I recently had a friend come over to my house.  I invited her in and watched as she looked around my home and then told me she would wait for me outside.  It was the strangest thing!  When I later asked what the problem was and why she left my home in such a...

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“Was me telling him my feelings too heavy?”

“Was me telling him my feelings too heavy?”

By | May 28, 2016 at 12:51 am | No comments

Dear Jenny, I dated someone about 15 years ago and we had an amazing wonderful relationship. However, after about four years together, our relationship ended abruptly. There was dishonesty involved on his part.  It took me a while to except that it was over and move on, but I...

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Q&A On Feng Shui

Q&A On Feng Shui

By | May 12, 2016 at 1:56 pm | No comments

Dear Jenny, Could you tell me if pets are good Feng Shui? Actually, pets are natural batteries of Ch’i and they can bring the loving spirit out in just about anyone.  It is well known that bringing pets into hospitals and retirement homes strengthens the health and...

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Water In Feng Shui

Water In Feng Shui

By | April 14, 2016 at 12:30 pm | No comments

Dear Jenny, I have heard from a few different people that water is very good in Feng Shui.  Does it matter where I put the water and if it’s running or not? Water is one of the five elements of Feng Shui.  So it is a very important part of our lives and how we live. ...

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“…It’s so much easier to be single.”

“…It’s so much easier to be single.”

By | March 30, 2016 at 4:30 pm | No comments

Dear Jenny, I am very happy being single and extremely happy with my life right now.  I am independent and I am able to do pretty much whatever I want.  I am always feeling happy and no one interferes with my plans!  I love my life; I can say that openly and...

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What is Feng Shui?

What is Feng Shui?

By | March 17, 2016 at 2:29 am | No comments

By Jenny Wallis Ask Jenny Now is not only a Relationship Advisor and a Life Coach, but also a company that provides consultations on Feng Shui.  Here are some commonly asked questions and concerns that she comes across while working with clients.  Perhaps, they can help you...

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“But I do know this, I do not want to lose her….”

“But I do know this, I do not want to lose her….”

By | March 3, 2016 at 12:19 pm | No comments

Hi Jenny, I have a girlfriend who I have been dating, exclusively, for 2 months.  The only thing is, she has another boyfriend!  He is a seaman and has been out on a boat for the entire time we have been together.  She speaks with him and they email each other,...

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” …It bugs me just thinking about her!”

” …It bugs me just thinking about her!”

By | February 18, 2016 at 1:38 am | No comments

Hi Jenny, I wanted to write in because I have a situation going on at work that I need your help with. You offer great advice on romantic relationships, but I’m hoping you can help me with one that is not romantic. I have a great bunch of people who I work with; all of them...

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“I Am Feeling Frustrated And Angry With Myself…”

“I Am Feeling Frustrated And Angry With Myself…”

By | February 4, 2016 at 1:15 am | No comments

Dear Jenny, I think that I am a pretty together person.  Meaning, I have done lots of work on myself, the “self-help” kind.  I am proud that I am such an independent, accomplished woman.  I feel that I don’t need a man and I wasn’t even looking for a relationship. ...

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“…This behavior is really bugging me.”

“…This behavior is really bugging me.”

By | January 21, 2016 at 12:28 am | No comments

Dear Jenny, I have been with my boyfriend for four years.  We have been happily living together for three years.  We have moved across the country together, we are absolutely in love.  I have noticed though, he doesn’t do the same things he used to do.  He used to be so...

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“Help Pull Me Out Of This Slump.”

“Help Pull Me Out Of This Slump.”

By | January 6, 2016 at 4:16 pm | No comments

Dear Jenny, I have had a tough 2015.  Not only in dating, but pretty much in all areas of my life I have struggled with happiness.  I am physically and mentally exhausted.  Is there any advice that you can give me that will help to pull me out of this...

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“…He still can’t seem to say the “L” word.”

“…He still can’t seem to say the “L” word.”

By | December 23, 2015 at 11:49 am | No comments

Hi Jenny, I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now and he still can’t seem to say the “L” word. I’ve felt that I have loved him for at least a half a year already, but I never wanted to be the first one to say it. Now, it has come to the point where I...

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“…You Can’t Have It All, Right?”

“…You Can’t Have It All, Right?”

By | November 25, 2015 at 9:31 pm | No comments

Dear Jenny, I am so happy with my life and everything I have coming to me.  I honestly feel like I am the luckiest woman around.  I have so much of what I want; my life seems totally together.  I always tell people how lucky and fortunate I am.  But recently, someone...

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“…It Is Me Who Is Ultimately Unavailable…”

“…It Is Me Who Is Ultimately Unavailable…”

By | November 18, 2015 at 11:16 pm | No comments

Dear Jenny, I have been in quite a few relationships but not one has stuck!  Not one has lasted longer than a year… Every time I am in a relationship, no matter how great it is in the beginning, it always seems to end abruptly.  I have always complained that I meet...

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“Where should I start in winning him back?”

“Where should I start in winning him back?”

By | November 5, 2015 at 1:29 am | No comments

Dear Jenny, My boyfriend and I were together for almost 2 years.  We had so much fun together and our relationship seemed perfect!  But as time went on, he seemed to pull away from me, and as he was doing that, I kind of chased him.  I guess you could say I was a bit...

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Ask Jenny Now

Ask Jenny Now

By | October 29, 2015 at 2:14 am | No comments

By Jenny Wallis Hi, my name is Jenny Wallis and I have had my fair share of relationships, and through each one have learned more and more about myself.  I have learned the sacrifices one must make to have a successful relationship, but have also learned the sacrifices that...

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