By Sunny Simon
The other day a friend asked me to name one thing for which I am grateful. I consistently express gratitude over multiple blessings; however, the first thing that came to mind at that moment was my work. The ability to align my skills with a fulfilling career is the backdrop of my professional life.
Some individuals know from age 12 exactly which path to take. Others are secure about making that decision in college when declaring a major. Yet another section of our population can meander for a decade or so continually changing jobs or career paths until something clicks.
Kids who claim a career passion at 12 are indeed a fortunate lot. People who eventually experience the ideal career match in their late thirties will probably tell you the journey was worthwhile. Time spent ruling out the wrong profession is both a learning and growth experience.
If you are reading this article thinking you still haven’t found the career that makes your heart sing, it’s time for some serious reflection. Perhaps in your gut you realize you have settled for an ill-fitting mismatch. Remaining in the wrong job is like walking a mile in a pair of shoes two-sizes too small. It’s painful. Here’s another hint: If all you think about as you hit the office door on Monday morning is a Friday evening happy hour, it’s time to make a change.
Some of my clients struggle with a career match in their early twenties while others, completely happy with their chosen profession for decades, decide that change is imminent. Creating a second or third act midway through work-life is not uncommon.
As elementary as it sounds the key to uncovering a career aligned with your interests, talents and passions is self-examination. Like the onion, continue to peel back the layers while asking yourself what type of work would bring fulfillment. Get out a notebook or pull up a blank screen on your computer. Then commence a cross-examination with your alter ego. Begin by listing your skills, the activities you enjoy during your leisure time, and areas that hold fascination. Then delve into your core values. For example, let’s assume you are passionate about helping others and much of your time is spent volunteering at a food kitchen. Whether that points to a career in the culinary arts or social work keep up your investigation. Finding your dream job can be just a few questions away.
Sunny Simon is the owner of Raise the Bar High Life and Career Coaching. More about Sunny at www.raisethebarhigh.com
