By Aimee Mosco

“Before we choose to incarnate in a physical body, we lay out an intricate plan of what we intend to accomplish and experience during a lifetime. We specify with whom we will connect and engage, and we form agreements with other souls…” –Gratitude + Forgiveness x (LOVE) = Happiness, by Aimee Mosco and Donald L. Ferguson, page 13.

Have you ever met someone for the first time but felt like you already knew that person? Have you ever found yourself wondering why you feel more attracted to certain friendships than others? Have you ever gotten caught in a loop with a romantic partner when it would feel better to just walk away?

Everyone has heard the term “chemistry” in the context of relationships. Often times, when you can’t explain the nature of a relationship with reason, it is natural to apply this term, signaling your acceptance of what it is you don’t understand.


The truth is, there is always an explanation to satisfy your understanding. If you are willing to open your heart and mind to clarification, you may be surprised at what you find out about your personal relationships and how they came to be.

While chemistry, in fact, may be responsible for prompting you to become aware of a powerful connection, there is a deeper force driving the chemistry. Nothing happens in your life that isn’t planned for on some level. Your soul has painstakingly mapped out for you a calculated journey of spiritual growth. And for most of us, the intricacies of that plan incorporate interaction with others as a way to achieve profound growth.

Your spiritual growth is dependent upon the knowledge you accumulate and the wisdom you cultivate from that knowledge. Wisdom is cultivated by fusing your knowledge with the elements of your experience. So, in other words, you grow spiritually when you grow mentally and emotionally through experience.

Relationships of any kind gift opportunities in which to grow. These experiences often represent important benchmarks of achievement to your soul. They are expected and accounted for on the pathway of life your soul has calculated.

Because expanding consciousness and relationships are so important to your spiritual development, your Higher Self generates “soul contracts” with other souls as a way to ensure you don’t miss opportunities to grow as planned. The magnetic attraction you feel to another person and can’t always explain, is a product of a soul contract. While it may not be clear to you the terms of the contract, when you find yourself responding to chemistry, know that you likely have important spiritual business with the other person sparking this reaction.  

In my pursuit to help you stay aligned with your soul plan, I invite you to join Facebook group Evolve through Love hosted by Elizabeth Scarcella, BB Ingle and me. Go to and share with us your experiences.

Aimee Mosco is an Author, Intuitive Channel, Global Ambassador for, and Co-Founder of Intentional Healing Systems, LLC. Aimee’s passion for helping others inspired her book “Gratitude + Forgiveness x (LOVE) = Happiness”. For more information, find Aimee at