By Aimee Mosco

Your inner spirit is the all-knowing part of you that can see what unfolds in your life from the highest possible perspective. In fact, this higher aspect of you is responsible for coordinating the significant events, relationships, milestones, lessons, highs, and lows of your life. None of these things materialize by accident. They are always a product of careful planning in the higher realms of creation because these events enable your inner spirit to guide your soul growth while you are in a body.

Your life experiences and all that is connected to them represent opportunities for growth. How you choose to view your experiences and the actions you take as follow up determine what you get from them. When you understand that your inner spirit coordinated an event so you could grow, you can choose to adjust your perspective and make the most of that event, regardless of what it is.

The most profound growth comes from something that is extremely painful or extremely pleasing. It is easy to identify the good that comes from something pleasing, but it can be hard to see the big picture when your ego has you cycling in pain and keeping the unfavorable aspects of an experience alive. When you exercise an expanded view of your circumstances that cause you pain, you see what your inner spirit sees. You see the lesson and a chance to grow.


This idea assigns new meaning to the phrase “everything happens for a reason”. Often times this phrase is used to pay tribute to value that sits beyond the awareness of the person making the statement, but it is also (mis)used to release oneself from the responsibility of looking deeply at the lesson or opening the mind to a higher perspective and a different action going forward. The statement of acknowledgement is true in all circumstances. What follows the acknowledgement is most important.

When you commit yourself to aligning your awareness with the soul growth your inner spirit intended, you naturally shift your perspective. You begin to look for soul supporting reasons why things happen as they do. This leads you right to the doorstep of a lesson your inner spirit has intended for you to integrate. When you choose to explore this lesson and contemplate ways to alter future outcomes, you are consciously and actively following the guidance of your inner spirit. So, the next time one of your experiences prompts you to use the phrase “everything happens for a reason”, seize the opportunity to follow the guidance of your inner spirit and grow your soul!

In my pursuit to assist you in the conscious management of your soul journey in this world, I invite you to join my Telegram group DIVINE PURPOSE Discussions. Go to and enjoy the light of this supportive community.

Aimee Mosco is an Author, Intuitive Channel, Spiritual Teacher and Co-Founder of Intentional Healing Systems, LLC. Aimee’s desire to help others inspired her first book “Gratitude + Forgiveness x (LOVE) = Happiness”. Aimee served global charity organization, World Game Changers, as vice-chair to their board and continues her charity work in the Coachella Valley. Find Aimee’s Channeling page on Facebook with @ihsaimeemosco or visit Aimee at